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Originally Posted by Vonnie You're right. In my head I was trying to separate the dull reasons from the fact that actually, I love Bob with my whole heart & soul and I want the world to know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him by my side.
It's really weird how this place can sometimes make you second guess yourself. |
I don't think the reasons you gave initially were dull, it makes sense to protect your childrens future when you are in a serious/longterm relationship. The fact that you love Bob is a given and I'm sure you would have the same life together if you hadn't got married, it just makes more sense to formalise it through marriage when thinking about the future of the kids.