'I would like to get married, but I’m unsure when'
I would need to meet someone that had the same opinion about what marriage IS before I even considered it. Never ever met anyone who agrees with me. I don't see it as a bit of paper. I see it as a bond, as you showing that person that you really DO want to spend the rest of your life with them, have kids, kittens and be BFF. Just exchanging lovely rings with no vows or legality is not marriage to me. Sure, it's showing slight commitment. Whoever I marry..it'll be the only marriage I have.
Also - I view this whole 'stag' and 'hen' night thing as fucking ridiculous. You're celebrating your last day of 'singledom' by doing what people do on those nights out?! What the hell have you been doing for the past while? As far as I'm aware, you've been in a relationship with someone who you are so commited to, you're about to marry them...why the hell do you need a dodgy night out to mourn this fact?! I just don't get it. Fair play to whoever goes on these things..and I doubt I'll ever meet a man who agrees with me about them..but it's an opinion I've always had. The whole thing makes me feel icky.
Might have to wait a fair bit for the 'perfect' relationship to come about. If it doesn't, I plan to be an amazingly crazy cat lady, FOR REAL.
