Another Rant

Well today is the day that my kids\' dads new fiancee moves to my home town. The removal vans should be winging their way up the M1 as I speak. Fair enough, hes moved on , I have moved on everybody is happy, but I am not looking forward to this for some reason. Ihave this horrible feeling in my gut that from here on in Im going to have to constantly defend myself against someone who thinks I am nothing more than the evil ex/mother of his children type. And that is so not me, but thats how he has painted me to her and there seems to be nothing I can do to change that.

I have decided that I will not be resuming his 50/50 access arrangement once they settle into their new home. He hasnt bothered his arse with the kids in the last 3 weeks, not a phone call, not a visit , he even missed Dylans hospital appointment the other week and then claimed he \"forgot\" because I didnt remind him. Yes James, because its my job to ensure that every little thing that goes on with your kids is hammered into your brain on a constant basis. He spent 10mins with his son when he got home from hospital and then went back to decorating his new love nest. So he is being offered every second weekend and a day through the week of his choice and if he wants anymore than that he can fight me in court for it. The kids are settled as they are and Im not upheaving them all over again just so we can all dance to daddies tune. I have tried my best over the last 4 years but if he can just shove his relationship with his kids to one side for a new woman then he doesnt deserve them.