bad show

pjgla · 25th November 2006, 2:19am

Hello,

I am writing to you concerning an incident that occurred tonight.. I was removed from your premises by a bouncer. Now, I am always a supporter of what bouncers do and understand they have a difficult job.

I admit that I was in the wrong in some sense. I played a silly drinking game in Jim’s bar, and after which I felt guilty and went to the toilet to put my finger down my throught as I felt I had gone to far. I know I had went to far by partaking in the game but felt that I wanted to rectify the issue and went to the toilet to make myself sick, so that I could then enjoy the rest of a none alcoholic night.

I was then escorted of the premises for being sick. I advise the bouncer that I had made myself sick as I had not wanted to get to drunk tonight after playing a silly drinking game. He responded by telling me that he could see I was not drunk, but as I had been sick I had to leave. I challenged him by telling him the truth, as to which he told me that if I hadn’t had made my self sick I could have stayed, as again he could see I was not intoxicated.

I know the bouncer do a great job in the GMU, but felt as if this puts a negative message out, as I asked him if I had not made myself sick would I have stayed and he relied yes.

So I was trying to be sensible and got flung out, but if I had been irresponsible, and
kept drinking and not made myself sick I could have stayed in.

I think this is the wrong signal to be sending young people and feel let down by the QMU who I have always respected.

My night was cut short by being sensible, but if I had been irresponsible I could have stayed in. Is this really the message you want to be sending out.

Thanks for your time

PJ

p.s. I am dyslexic so please ignor the spelling

Exit_W0unds · 25th November 2006, 2:23am

Shouldn't you be complaining to the QMU?

faerie_child · 25th November 2006, 2:23am

them's the rules dude. if you're sick, they have to boot you. shame but true.

Hammer · 25th November 2006, 2:30am

Firstly dude, address your complaints to President@QMU.org.uk. Gary is a nice guy and loves getting your emails.

Secondly, you just admitted that you went to the toilet to make yourself sick. Problem right there. If you felt sick then you should have stopped drinking, sipped some water or gone home. That would have been responsible.
Making yourself spew is sheer idiocy. Your night was cut short by your own lack of common sense.

endless psych · 25th November 2006, 2:45am

Are you a QM member? I could give various advice here on what you could have done differently if you are... but I am reticent to do so on an open forum - the bouncers might not be best pleased...

pjgla · 26th November 2006, 1:14am

Ye it was totaly my fault for going down the tacktacle spew route, plus it was a waste of good alcohol. And the worst part was I made myself sick so that I could stay sober so that I could write my essay today, and I've jsut sat and vegged infront of the TV all day anyway. Should have just got drunk..ha

I just felt silly for getting flung out while still sober, and felt that I needed to vent my frustration some where... silly I know.

But thanks for your comments anyway much appreciated. I'm away to start my essay.. better late than never.

endless psych · 26th November 2006, 1:15am

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Originally Posted by pjgla

I just felt silly for getting flung out while still sober, and felt that I needed to vent my frustration some where... silly I know.

But thanks for your comments anyway much appreciated. I'm away to start my essay.. better late than never.

Don't be clicking on New Posts... Your easy will never get done...

**djtoast** · 26th November 2006, 6:32am

Understandable to be annoyed but it's not really acceptable to throw up in a pub or club; you can't really do so and expect to stay.

By all means write to or email Gary, but I'm fairly sure he'll just say "put it down to experience and take it easy next time."

Welcome to AltNation by the way! There's a lot here besides the QM section, take a look around

MarkMono · 26th November 2006, 10:39am

Aye, I read that story back and forth, trying to find a joke to make at someones expense.

You can't be sick in a pub or club and expect to stay on the premises.

Baron Samedi · 26th November 2006, 10:56am

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Originally Posted by pjgla

Ye it was totaly my fault for going down the tacktacle spew route

You've said it yourself - can't really have any grounds for complaint.

pjgla · 26th November 2006, 1:49pm

For sure deffenetly going to put this one down to experiance. Once the red mist had lifted, I relised I had been in the wrong and by that time I had already posted it....

At least I didn't raise the complaint with the QMU it would have just been laught at.

uh well just one more thing to add to the I wish I never list.

Realy like the site... could aviod workig for hours just looking through it.

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Baron Samedi · 26th November 2006, 1:52pm

Can certainly relate to the posting during red mist thing! You lives, you learns,

Hammer · 26th November 2006, 5:12pm

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Originally Posted by pjgla

For sure deffenetly going to put this one down to experiance. Once the red mist had lifted, I relised I had been in the wrong and by that time I had already posted it....

At least I didn't raise the complaint with the QMU it would have just been laught at.

uh well just one more thing to add to the I wish I never list.

Realy like the site... could aviod workig for hours just looking through it.

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Coming back and apoligising = good and responsible

I know that the QM's had worse complaints then that though.

I've seen people theatening to write drunken letters to the President, threatening to have him fired and claiming that they know him personally which entitles them to be arse holes. There's a good few folks on here that have even better stories then that.

lauraubuggin · 26th November 2006, 5:39pm

A friend of mine got asked to leave because a bouncer thought she had been throwing up in the toilets, turns out it was the girl in the cubicle next to her. luckily it was the end of the night, my mate was reletively sober and had the sense not to argue- that always makes it ten time worse!
also the QM bouncers are alot nicer that some of the bouncers i have met in my time, but as they say- a rule is a rule!

Hammer · 26th November 2006, 5:45pm

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Originally Posted by lauraubuggin

A friend of mine got asked to leave because a bouncer thought she had been throwing up in the toilets, turns out it was the girl in the cubicle next to her. luckily it was the end of the night, my mate was reletively sober and had the sense not to argue- that always makes it ten time worse!
also the QM bouncers are alot nicer that some of the bouncers i have met in my time, but as they say- a rule is a rule!

I remember that well. I was in fact on Duty at the time.

Ah...back in the day...

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